Quote by AestusOuch man thats worse than
my worst story. It will go away once you open up to other people, start dating
others (try picking ones unlike that heartless cow).
Time heals all, getting new friends is a change, seems to me like you're moving
up and on.
Thanks for the answer.
You are so true about the ``heartless cow`` name because
when we spoke on the phone, she told me that since the breakup now that i've
started looking out and try to have a date every now and then, she said that was
a total lack of respect from me toward her because it seemed to her that she was
just a number for me after all.....
....... excuse me to state the fricking obvious here but she's the one who lacks
respect because SHE is the one who is actually IN a relationship right now.....
lol?
Thanks again for the reply. So far, ever since the whole thing, we never spoke
to each other again and for me, so far, so good.......
Let's just see if at my b-day (sept 5th) she'll at least call to say happy
b-day. According to my ever constant bad luck, she might
LOL
Nah she probly wont call, that about the lack of respect thing was her trying to
string you along, just in case she changes her mind. You're better off wishing
her a nice life and getting on with your own.
Quote by ealpha-scorpio[quo(...)
is what I would do in you're shoes: I would cope with it ASAP, because if your
boy, & ex-girlfriend want to be straight ass holes then you know what fuck
em. You don't need that, you can get with better. She obviously had doubts the
first time she asked if you wanted to be with her. Move on they're both not
worth it. If your "best
friend" knew that you liked her, and he was seeing her knowing this then
you need to get another best friend. I mean after all the best revenge is: Fuck
friends. (Excuse my language)
That was what I was also thinking. You still call them your BEST FRIENDS, while
all they did proved the opposite. You said that your ex-girlfriend is
back-stabbing you, if she was fair with you she should have clear things between
you two first, and then moved on with your supposedly BEST friend. As a girl, I
think the best thing she should have done was to respect you and your past
relationship together. From what you're explaining, it seemes none of those
things matters to her. None of them were fair with you.
MOVE ON, even if you still like her, and try your chances with other girls.
You'll eventually come to like one of them and hopefully, they'll value you
more.
merged: 08-27-2007 ~ 12:58pm
And ( ) -I forgot to mention it- I don't think you made a mistake at all! You did
the RIGHT thing although it hurt you a lot. YUP! You
learned a great lesson at a very high price. BUT, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, SO
DON'T THINK OF IT AS A MISTAKE.
thnxs for the comment. It felt really helpful but yet again, I don't understand
what you mean about that I did the right thing and I shoudn't think of it as a
mistake.... Could you please explain? ^^
Quote by juppu-kun
Almost 3 months ago, i did my worst mistake : I started dating my best friend. (
a girl )
What I meant was that, you paid a high price in knowing your best friend. And, that she wasn't the best
friend as you though she is. (Please don't get me wrong, I don't mean it that
way. She still might be a very good girl, but definitely not for you) You didn't
mistake in dating her, you just came to know her much better than before. So
don't regret that you dated her. (Look at
the brighter side instead of telling yourself that you made mistake)
Quote by juppu-kunYAY! hiarrrrrrrrrrrr!
thank you me matey!
I'll costume you as Mario from Mario bros because he is THE dude! or if you are
a girl the Princess Peach hahaha ^^
lol, Princess Peach it is, I guess.
But I wouldn't mind going as Mario (crossplay? ) because he
rawks your sawks.
My pleasure! i came across a picture of yours i wanted called:" in maid
"but it was in quarantine.... Is there a way you could send it to me? thnxs
in advance
give me your mail, and i'll gladly send it to you
merged: 08-19-2006 ~ 09:32pm
now i'm leaving this weekend, when i come back let's talk about sharing,
ok?
......... wow...... it would seem you sent the original message to yourself
instead of me hehehehe....... Say..... you wouldn't happen to know if whether
I'm a girl or not do you?
Haha....... ponder that for a while, but while your at it...... lets pray that
this new soul in your life is kind, gentle, and will be able to be your soul
mate....... for those you can love and be loved........... Alright, that's about
enough of my babblings..... hehehehe.....
Wow, consider me impressed. You wrote a lot. You being alone for 17 years is
also impressive.......... but at least you didn't have to wait 83 years and then
die the next day.......... As for the "do you have any idea" part, I'm
not sure, but I've been through many things, (beside girlfriends). But, just
because I haven't had a girlfriend doesn't mean I don't know what it feels to be
slapped in the face. I don't want to spell the beans just yet or even a litttle,
so I do hope you realize that your not cold or dark. Your just confused and I
might add........ weak. At least in the mind. If you still think I don't get it,
slam me with harsh words. I'd like to hear them.
merged: 07-03-2006 ~ 01:37pm
Quote: 1- I have been single until
i got 17 years old.... i dint had a gf before that
2-The "weakness" you describe isnt about the strengh of myself in the
situation.... I woudn't not even qualify that as weak. Being weak is to run away
from the situation a.k.a. suicide. I dint even f*cking thought of it once. She
wasent worth it. I saw her once since the breakup and she acted like she never
loved me even once. I were angry and devastated so i got home, drank alone alot
and cut myself inside my hands and drawn a star on my belly with the unsharpened
dagger she gave me at valentine's day. When i sobered up, i realized it was
f*cking sick what i just done. I lightned up since and told myself she aint
worth a sh*t to me anymore no matter how i loved her before and how i still
little do now. I kept no scars of this "drunken mutilation". It was
the first time i even did this and believe me it's the last too
Being strong is to keep on with it and move along. Yes, the scars may heal over
like right now but before that, the anger, the feeling of loss, the confusion,
the sorrow and being consumed by madness isnt a sign of weakness. Giving up is
I though for myself about this at work today and thought of what i could bring
up to her face if she ever confronts me and try to b*tch on me at college. I am
ready to counter her now. It's not revenge as far as i am concerned just to show
her i wont crumble under my emotions and finally stand up against her constant
attacks. If she dosent cause me trouble at college i wont do some to her either
but if she does i'll tell her flaws to her face too.
And no i wont slam you with harsh words, you're still young. you havent felt all
this yet....... Consider me your mentor if it happens to you. Since that breakup
of mine. I have the strange capacity to settle broken couples again ......
Wow, you didn't have a girlfriend before 17. Big deal. I have a friend who
didn't have his first girlfriend till he was 28. I don't intend to have one till
I'm 18 or older.
As for the weak part........ you can't seem to drill into your head that weak is
you "not being able to move along." Suicide isn't weak either. It's
dead. You still seem to hate the girl, and with your guts. Your ready to go tell
her to go screw herself into the ground if she starts to bad mouth you. That is
weak cause you can't take it. To be strong is to end it with words of
conviction. Take a Gandhi for example, he didn't use violence, but words to show
the British that they were nut balls. Not to mention the move along part is far
from where you are. You're still there, cursing her for all the pain she's
caused you.
As for the scar metaphor, you have it wrong. Yes, your wounds have healed, but
those scars haven't faded. If you can still hate her, those scars remain. The
wounds are when you were devastated with the lost of your relationship. The
scars are what the break up left behind, that is to say, anger and the sorry
child's excuse "It's all her fault." For the scars to truely heal, is
when that realtion no longer effects any longer. You being ready to counter her
shows simply that the scars are not yet gone.
As for helping couples? What great irony. You can help others, but not yourself.
Heh, it should be the other way around first.
As for being my mentor............ I think I'll pass cause I don't think you
have what it takes. Just cause I'm younger than you for about 3 or 4 years makes
you better than me? Just cause I'm younger, does that make me
naïve? Really, I hate it when those older than me think
they know so much. True, they know more than me at the moment, but they don't
know everything, and that is where you fall into the trap. Just cause you been
in this situation, you think you know how to deal with it now. Problem is, you
haven't finished your own problem. Besides, I've had my own share of problems,
and I'm still alive. To but it bluntly, I don't need a mentor, I can take care
of myself.
After reading your messeage, I'd advise you to reconsider your choice of words.
I know that I'm still a child, and I have no right to tell you anything, but you
have to realize that you too are a child. You may have "more"
experiences since you've been kicking longer, but the fact that some of our
experiences are "different" shows that you lack significant knowledge
to keep talking.
In some ways, you remind me of a child. You complain about your problems. You
say that your dark and cold; and all the blame is never near you. I've had a
difficult life, yet I don't complain; I never have. I'm happy where I am now and
content with what I have. If you can see the difference, who's stronger do you
think?
By the way, I liked you to know that I study humans for a hobby. And one way to
study them is to go to a city and sit on a bench. Just for the day, watch
everyone pass by, and take in what they do. If your unable to understand what
this is suppose to teach, try again in another 20 years. At that time, if you
look back at this debate that we are having now, it'll seem childish. You'll see
that I was wrong in some areas, but so were you. That is of course, if your not
in denial, which of course, is quite humorious. I do get a kick out of humans
sometimes.............
Since it is almost holiday seasons and it is winter time, I will be writing a
lot of poems that will revolve mainly around the going-ons of winter, winter,
and spring. So expect me to write a lot of poems that I am sure I will do my
best so everyone can enjoy them.
Beside beginning to write poems again after a short break, I will probably have
a surprise for all my friends on MT. You all
will know it soon enough.
tiens! je serais (would be?) content parler le francais avec vous aussi! j'ai
...um....te "added" a mon "friendlist." lol, i hope it wasnt
too bad for a first try.
Wow I sincerely hope you and your girlfriend continue to hold that strong bond
you both share!
And a guy could seem good looking and fit but if he is a jerk I could NOT CARE
LESS. A very nice funny smart guy with a few extra pounds is definitely more of
a catch!
thnxs for the comment. It felt really helpful but yet again, I don't understand what you mean about that I did the right thing and I shoudn't think of it as a mistake.... Could you please explain? ^^
What I meant was that, you paid a high price in knowing your best friend. And, that she wasn't the best friend as you though she is. (Please don't get me wrong, I don't mean it that way. She still might be a very good girl, but definitely not for you) You didn't mistake in dating her, you just came to know her much better than before. So don't regret that you dated her.
lol, Princess Peach it is, I guess.
But I wouldn't mind going as Mario (crossplay?
) because he
rawks your sawks. 
hi man!
many thx for this and the other comments!
have a good day/night! :P
see you around !
merged: 08-19-2006 ~ 04:24am
......... wow...... it would seem you sent the original message to yourself instead of me hehehehe....... Say..... you wouldn't happen to know if whether I'm a girl or not do you?
Haha....... ponder that for a while, but while your at it...... lets pray that this new soul in your life is kind, gentle, and will be able to be your soul mate....... for those you can love and be loved........... Alright, that's about enough of my babblings..... hehehehe.....
Wow, consider me impressed. You wrote a lot. You being alone for 17 years is also impressive.......... but at least you didn't have to wait 83 years and then die the next day.......... As for the "do you have any idea" part, I'm not sure, but I've been through many things, (beside girlfriends). But, just because I haven't had a girlfriend doesn't mean I don't know what it feels to be slapped in the face. I don't want to spell the beans just yet or even a litttle, so I do hope you realize that your not cold or dark. Your just confused and I might add........ weak. At least in the mind. If you still think I don't get it, slam me with harsh words. I'd like to hear them.
merged: 07-03-2006 ~ 01:37pm
Wow, you didn't have a girlfriend before 17. Big deal. I have a friend who didn't have his first girlfriend till he was 28. I don't intend to have one till I'm 18 or older.
As for the weak part........ you can't seem to drill into your head that weak is you "not being able to move along." Suicide isn't weak either. It's dead. You still seem to hate the girl, and with your guts. Your ready to go tell her to go screw herself into the ground if she starts to bad mouth you. That is weak cause you can't take it. To be strong is to end it with words of conviction. Take a Gandhi for example, he didn't use violence, but words to show the British that they were nut balls. Not to mention the move along part is far from where you are. You're still there, cursing her for all the pain she's caused you.
As for the scar metaphor, you have it wrong. Yes, your wounds have healed, but those scars haven't faded. If you can still hate her, those scars remain. The wounds are when you were devastated with the lost of your relationship. The scars are what the break up left behind, that is to say, anger and the sorry child's excuse "It's all her fault." For the scars to truely heal, is when that realtion no longer effects any longer. You being ready to counter her shows simply that the scars are not yet gone.
As for helping couples? What great irony. You can help others, but not yourself. Heh, it should be the other way around first.
As for being my mentor............ I think I'll pass cause I don't think you have what it takes. Just cause I'm younger than you for about 3 or 4 years makes you better than me? Just cause I'm younger, does that make me naïve? Really, I hate it when those older than me think they know so much. True, they know more than me at the moment, but they don't know everything, and that is where you fall into the trap. Just cause you been in this situation, you think you know how to deal with it now. Problem is, you haven't finished your own problem. Besides, I've had my own share of problems, and I'm still alive. To but it bluntly, I don't need a mentor, I can take care of myself.
After reading your messeage, I'd advise you to reconsider your choice of words. I know that I'm still a child, and I have no right to tell you anything, but you have to realize that you too are a child. You may have "more" experiences since you've been kicking longer, but the fact that some of our experiences are "different" shows that you lack significant knowledge to keep talking.
In some ways, you remind me of a child. You complain about your problems. You say that your dark and cold; and all the blame is never near you. I've had a difficult life, yet I don't complain; I never have. I'm happy where I am now and content with what I have. If you can see the difference, who's stronger do you think?
By the way, I liked you to know that I study humans for a hobby. And one way to study them is to go to a city and sit on a bench. Just for the day, watch everyone pass by, and take in what they do. If your unable to understand what this is suppose to teach, try again in another 20 years. At that time, if you look back at this debate that we are having now, it'll seem childish. You'll see that I was wrong in some areas, but so were you. That is of course, if your not in denial, which of course, is quite humorious. I do get a kick out of humans sometimes.............
Hi!^^
Thanks for your comment on my thread!
Have a nice week!
merged: 02-24-2006 ~ 01:36am
Maido!^^
Another "THANKS" for your reply on my other thread!
You are making me very happy!
merged: 03-05-2006 ~ 10:09pm
Chiwa1^^
Very special thanks for your replies on my threads!^^
Friends?
Hi Juppu-kun thanks for your comments on my scan of Digi Charat "Shakin that ass" and my other scan "Damn Rabbits" . I'm glad you liked the scans
Since it is almost holiday seasons and it is winter time, I will be writing a lot of poems that will revolve mainly around the going-ons of winter, winter, and spring. So expect me to write a lot of poems that I am sure I will do my best so everyone can enjoy them.
Beside beginning to write poems again after a short break, I will probably have a surprise for all my friends on MT.
You all
will know it soon enough. 
tiens! je serais (would be?) content parler le francais avec vous aussi! j'ai ...um....te "added" a mon "friendlist." lol, i hope it wasnt too bad for a first try.
Wow I sincerely hope you and your girlfriend continue to hold that strong bond you both share!
And a guy could seem good looking and fit but if he is a jerk I could NOT CARE LESS. A very nice funny smart guy with a few extra pounds is definitely more of a catch!
Hi!
Thankyou very much for the comment you left on my Sensual Energy wallie
*waves* see you around
Hi
I added you to my FL. Have fun with your gf.
-Shoku
HEY thanks FOR answering TO MY thread IF YOU WANT answer MORE FEEL FREE inuyasha-idiot!
Really :P Damn Toko rules
Nice to
meet ya, btw then your little sister must be very funny lmao....
Hi,
Thank you for commenting in my post! I appreciate it.