Quote by satoshi-kunthnx for writing
in my thread, and on what get you down... ur gonna have to ask yourself if most
if those answer will just get you down is there a point... once you noe theres
no turning back so be careful on the reason for why you want to noe. and yeah,
the most brilliant of lives are the humble ones, those who are happy with what
they have. if you quest to find out "WHY" only to be disappointed with
the answer then whats the point, cuz at that point youve accomplished what you
want but you're still not happy. trust me i wanted to know how and why things
were in my life too but then i realised that the answers got me more down than
not knowing it. knowledge for the sake of enriching your life and the lives of
others is better than knowledge for the sake of knowledge. well srry for going
on like that :p. cya around
thank you for all your advice, i understand the dilemma of thinking too much and
pondering on the life questions that yield no answers really... each one his/her
own i guess...
That is not a problem. I jump from one area of
interest to another, so my pardons if I can't recall which thread of yours I
participated in at this particular time. However, I feel that its coming back to
me, slowly. Hehe! **Chomps on her pocky** Let's get on a roll!
Quote by satoshi-kunbut can u ask
yourself a question. if you ere to stand up for what is right would you do it
for the sake of what is good or will you do it out of bitterness and hatred for
what is bad.
A rather interesting question!
Although the purpose seems to be set and straight forward from my own
perspective here, I do know what you mean about certain temptations settling in
that will derive you off of your main course. That is why I try to keep true to
my very own words as best as I could. Over time, my thoughts may change from
experiences, I may not be fighting the same battles I may have overcome back
before then in the past, and my worries may shift some place else. You could
possibly say there's no need to fight for it as long as it doesn't concern me
anymore in particular.
Even though it would be nice to stand up for what is right for the rest of the
community / society, especially those who are very close to you, to be honest
with you, I would rather prefer be the person who would settle out as a
fence-sitter and do nothing at all, having to place these kind of issues as the
least of the worries. Of course, depending on who it may affect, if it has to
deal with something like me or my personal close friends in particular, I would
likely be highly involved in putting an end to what seems to cause the problem
as quick as I can, not as a will of payback but as a will that in the future,
these events won't hopefully ever have to happen again in due time [although I
highly doubt that may be the case]. How? By normally dropping off a word of
apology, debate necessary points to draw out the meaning of their mistakes only once, maybe twice [though rarely], and
moving onwards. If it gets too heated in the crossfire, rather than be
helplessly fighting in a corner where they want you to lose, you simply just
ignore them and have them deal with the frustration they brought upon
themselves.
As the saying goes: It is wiser to pick your own
battles, than to be fighting for all. I've seen it happen too many times.
No one would ever really want stress to be placed upon their lives, and just
having them to drag you into their little so-called "mind games" is
exactly the way they want it to be.
The whole point of the story is that it isn't worth hanging onto something you
consider good when they believe their own is better through unconditional
belief. Only those who are reasonable, thoughtful, and understanding individuals
are worth talking it over and dealing with the cause itself. If no one is
willing to listen and demonstrate effective communication, its highly likely
that they want to provoke you, they don't want you to be angry with them in
return, and if you do, you pay the price. Either way, they'll try to laugh it
over and try to get over your skin. It's how you handle it and trying to weigh
out what's really worth fighting for
depending on the individuals whom you are connecting with through effective
communication, that matters.
Quote by satoshi-kunand i was kinda
scared to enter your page cuz i think it said "perverts will be shot
down" so yeah... im just joking cya around.
Oh, about
that. I'm not going to deny the fact I meant what I said, but however, I am
fairly reasonable with people who are just who they are. Besides, I know a good
colleague of mine who tends to talk about guys all the time and how good they
look, and I didn't really mind about it. The reason why we still get along is
not because of our differences in opinions, but rather she can display a common
courtesy and respect towards me when she means it the most. Even though I do not
like to mention about this typical subject in particular, she completely
understands me and never tries to bring up anything about it at all. I likewise
do the same for her. That's what I like so much about her. She's a very
thoughtful and caring person, really. Sure, she may often joke about it too much
at certain moments, but she does it in good nature and spirit, of course.
Nothing to any extremity.
In any case, if you feel slightly offended by that remark of mine on that
picture, I do apologize. It was not my overall intention to target certain
people down, and I hope you can understand what I mean by this. **Tips her hat**
Oh, and sorry about the long reply. Farewell!
well lemme see... first of all get an account at a free (or paying) file hosting
website and get ANOTHER account at a site where you can have an image album or
music list... for image uploading and hosting try www.imageshack.com or www.photobucket.com, and for music and
mp3... well irunno... try googling up some sites, try searching for "Free
online MP3 hosting" or something of the sort... hope it was of any help...
Quote by satoshi-kunwell dont
question the relationship too much cuz u might end up give your self answer but
not neccasarily the rite one or the best one. just um see what happens and
sometimes friendships that turn into a relationship is really good cuz u
understand each other better than other people but some times it may not be soo
good if you expect too much because now your in a deeper relationship the sudden
change might make u feel awkward about how your relationship was before and how
they should be now. my advice is dont change too much of the old relationship
but remember that this is now also a more committed relationship so dont do
anything that might make both of you question the relationship eg flirtin with
someone else lol.
well srry for goin on like that and most of that was probably only helpful if u
do get with him srry.
but if your interested i might be able to tell how delicate or how long him and
his girlfriend might last... just tell me his personality and her personality
and the environment they are exposed to, and im just tryin to help
^^
merged: 07-07-2006 ~ 05:57pm
but i dont guarantee complete accuracy for my prediction lol
and if u are interested leave info in my page
Satoshi-kun, thank you very much for your offer. I would have told you, but the
thing is, I don't know his girlfriend. All I know is that she lives in another
city different than his.
He's very sweet and kind to me, honest, and chivalrous. He's ready to do
anything for me, anytime ^_^
I think this isn't enough for you to make any predictions, hehe
But, thanks again!
hey there buddy...thank you for the suggestion you made on my thread... I have
already talked to both of them but it hasn't solved anything, right now it's
like a war between me 'n my gf and my best friend... well I'll try and do what
you told me... seems some good advice... thanks again
merged: 07-07-2006 ~ 01:36am
btw... welcome to MT! hope you have a good one here...
thank you for all your advice, i understand the dilemma of thinking too much and pondering on the life questions that yield no answers really... each one his/her own i guess...
That is not a problem. I jump from one area of interest to another, so my pardons if I can't recall which thread of yours I participated in at this particular time. However, I feel that its coming back to me, slowly. Hehe! **Chomps on her pocky** Let's get on a roll!
A rather interesting question!
Although the purpose seems to be set and straight forward from my own perspective here, I do know what you mean about certain temptations settling in that will derive you off of your main course. That is why I try to keep true to my very own words as best as I could. Over time, my thoughts may change from experiences, I may not be fighting the same battles I may have overcome back before then in the past, and my worries may shift some place else. You could possibly say there's no need to fight for it as long as it doesn't concern me anymore in particular.
Even though it would be nice to stand up for what is right for the rest of the community / society, especially those who are very close to you, to be honest with you, I would rather prefer be the person who would settle out as a fence-sitter and do nothing at all, having to place these kind of issues as the least of the worries. Of course, depending on who it may affect, if it has to deal with something like me or my personal close friends in particular, I would likely be highly involved in putting an end to what seems to cause the problem as quick as I can, not as a will of payback but as a will that in the future, these events won't hopefully ever have to happen again in due time [although I highly doubt that may be the case]. How? By normally dropping off a word of apology, debate necessary points to draw out the meaning of their mistakes only once, maybe twice [though rarely], and moving onwards. If it gets too heated in the crossfire, rather than be helplessly fighting in a corner where they want you to lose, you simply just ignore them and have them deal with the frustration they brought upon themselves.
As the saying goes: It is wiser to pick your own battles, than to be fighting for all. I've seen it happen too many times. No one would ever really want stress to be placed upon their lives, and just having them to drag you into their little so-called "mind games" is exactly the way they want it to be.
The whole point of the story is that it isn't worth hanging onto something you consider good when they believe their own is better through unconditional belief. Only those who are reasonable, thoughtful, and understanding individuals are worth talking it over and dealing with the cause itself. If no one is willing to listen and demonstrate effective communication, its highly likely that they want to provoke you, they don't want you to be angry with them in return, and if you do, you pay the price. Either way, they'll try to laugh it over and try to get over your skin. It's how you handle it and trying to weigh out what's really worth fighting for depending on the individuals whom you are connecting with through effective communication, that matters.
Oh, about that. I'm not going to deny the fact I meant what I said, but however, I am fairly reasonable with people who are just who they are. Besides, I know a good colleague of mine who tends to talk about guys all the time and how good they look, and I didn't really mind about it. The reason why we still get along is not because of our differences in opinions, but rather she can display a common courtesy and respect towards me when she means it the most. Even though I do not like to mention about this typical subject in particular, she completely understands me and never tries to bring up anything about it at all. I likewise do the same for her. That's what I like so much about her. She's a very thoughtful and caring person, really. Sure, she may often joke about it too much at certain moments, but she does it in good nature and spirit, of course. Nothing to any extremity.
In any case, if you feel slightly offended by that remark of mine on that picture, I do apologize. It was not my overall intention to target certain people down, and I hope you can understand what I mean by this. **Tips her hat** Oh, and sorry about the long reply. Farewell!
Starting all over again eh? Good times. Posted in a topic. Laterz
well lemme see... first of all get an account at a free (or paying) file hosting website and get ANOTHER account at a site where you can have an image album or music list... for image uploading and hosting try www.imageshack.com or www.photobucket.com, and for music and mp3... well irunno... try googling up some sites, try searching for "Free online MP3 hosting" or something of the sort... hope it was of any help...
Satoshi-kun, thank you very much for your offer. I would have told you, but the thing is, I don't know his girlfriend. All I know is that she lives in another city different than his.
He's very sweet and kind to me, honest, and chivalrous. He's ready to do anything for me, anytime ^_^
I think this isn't enough for you to make any predictions, hehe
But, thanks again! 
thnks for answring my riddle, and ur rght! its sadness (depression). if u dont mind, can u please rate the riddle? did u like it? was it hard?
hey there buddy...thank you for the suggestion you made on my thread... I have already talked to both of them but it hasn't solved anything, right now it's like a war between me 'n my gf and my best friend... well I'll try and do what you told me... seems some good advice... thanks again
merged: 07-07-2006 ~ 01:36am
btw... welcome to MT! hope you have a good one here...
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